You are entitled to be happy and in a romantic relationship. However, sadly in these times, most of us need a helping hand. Sitting at home waiting for love to come through the door is just not going to happen. You have to be proactive in the matter of looking for love.
One of the biggest misconceptions about love and relationships is that they will happen on their own. Mr or Ms Perfect is just going to come along into your life and make everything all right. This passive attitude is terribly damaging for your future prospects of romantic happiness.
"No one is coming." Nathaniel Branden, a great psychologist of our time.
When questioned about what made them most happy, people answered with close relationships. This answer came ahead of work, money, leisure and health. What do you call a job seeker who waits for an employer to knock on his door? Unemployed. How is this any different to waiting for love to tap us on the shoulder? It is not. People who hang back waiting for others to make the first move romantically could end up being equally as unlucky in love.
There are many excuses many of us use when we meet someone we like. "She might think I am a stalker if I ask her out." "She is so beautiful, she is totally out of my league." "He is so nice he is obviously taken." "Men are supposed to make the first move." "I'm taking it slowly." "If he is really interested he will come back and talk to me." "If it's meant to be, we'll bump into each other again." How many of these justifications have you used in the past?
Why are we so cruel to ourselves when it comes to looking after our own happiness?
We are all fearful of rejection. None of us wants to look desperate and dateless. Nobody wants to embarrass themselves.
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Stop wasting time. You will just be expressing your interest. There is no pressure on you or uncomfortable face to face situations. This may be the romantic opportunity of a lifetime. To be successful though, you have to take the first step.
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